We usually have the impression that when we lose things, its gone forever. We cry, crib, do many idiotic things except for making attempts to get that thing back. It is usually said that 'one should never cry over spilt milk'. What goes unsaid is clean up the mess and go get some more milk.
Then again, we hear people saying 'try try till you succeed'. But do we ? If yes, then very rarely. Life does contain many instances where you lose something that you are attached to the most. But this doesn't mean that life ends there or that you can never stay happy again .. and certainly not that you wont get anything better. But what really matters is that if you really were attached to that thing, you should make earnest attempts to get back what you lost.
Losing things in life is not bad luck. Its just a time when you need to realize its worth. There is no time frame for realizing worth. It can happen in a day.. sometimes years.. If you really want it you would strive for it else you would just let it go. You may not get everything back.. but this time around you need to lower your expectations. You should realize what you lost the first time so that you take care of whatever you have right from the start.
Same is with human relations. Realizing the worth of a person is the most important part of any relationship. Humans are not perfect and they are bound to make mistakes. So, one should not feel let down if he/she couldn't give the relationship a good shot. Life always offers everyone a second chance. Everyone always has a second chance at everything in life but there is no specified time limit to this too. Sometimes it takes years to get that chance.
If you really want a person after you have lost him/her, you would go out of the way to get that person back. You may or may not succeed but its always a good option to keep trying. The fruit tastes sweeter if the effort to achieve it was comparatively more. Never lose hopes as nothings lost forever.
Then again, we hear people saying 'try try till you succeed'. But do we ? If yes, then very rarely. Life does contain many instances where you lose something that you are attached to the most. But this doesn't mean that life ends there or that you can never stay happy again .. and certainly not that you wont get anything better. But what really matters is that if you really were attached to that thing, you should make earnest attempts to get back what you lost.
Losing things in life is not bad luck. Its just a time when you need to realize its worth. There is no time frame for realizing worth. It can happen in a day.. sometimes years.. If you really want it you would strive for it else you would just let it go. You may not get everything back.. but this time around you need to lower your expectations. You should realize what you lost the first time so that you take care of whatever you have right from the start.
Same is with human relations. Realizing the worth of a person is the most important part of any relationship. Humans are not perfect and they are bound to make mistakes. So, one should not feel let down if he/she couldn't give the relationship a good shot. Life always offers everyone a second chance. Everyone always has a second chance at everything in life but there is no specified time limit to this too. Sometimes it takes years to get that chance.
If you really want a person after you have lost him/her, you would go out of the way to get that person back. You may or may not succeed but its always a good option to keep trying. The fruit tastes sweeter if the effort to achieve it was comparatively more. Never lose hopes as nothings lost forever.
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